A Delightful Ladies High Tea at Birdscroft

At Birdscroft Nursing Home, we cherish moments that bring our residents together to enjoy friendship, tradition, and a touch of elegance. Recently, our ladies gathered for a special High Tea celebration—an afternoon filled with fragrant teas, rich coffees, and an exquisite selection of cakes. This event was not only a treat for the palate but also a wonderful opportunity to embrace the timeless British tradition of afternoon tea, fostering community spirit and wellbeing among our residents.

The Charm of a Ladies High Tea

High Tea, often lovingly referred to as Afternoon Tea, is a quintessentially British ritual that dates back to the early 19th century. Originally popularised by Anna, the Duchess of Bedford, it was designed as a light meal to bridge the gap between lunch and dinner. Today, it remains a symbol of sophistication and social connection, bringing people together over delicate finger sandwiches, scones, and cakes served alongside steaming pots of tea or coffee.

At Birdscroft, our Ladies High Tea was carefully planned to honour this tradition while creating a warm, welcoming atmosphere for our residents. The lounge was beautifully decorated with fresh flowers, fine china, and crisp linens, setting the perfect scene for an elegant afternoon.

The Perfect Tea and Coffee Selection

No High Tea would be complete without the perfect cup of tea or coffee. Our staff ensured a variety of teas were available, including classic English Breakfast, Earl Grey, and a selection of herbal infusions to suit all tastes. Each pot was brewed fresh, allowing the rich aromas to fill the room and invite guests to relax and savour the moment.

For those who preferred coffee, freshly brewed cups were served with care, offering a robust alternative to the delicate teas. The attention to detail in the pouring and presentation reflected the true spirit of British tea etiquette—lifting the cup by the handle, sipping gently, and enjoying the company without haste.

An Irresistible Array of Cakes

The highlight of the afternoon was undoubtedly the selection of cakes, each baked fresh and presented on tiered cake stands. Our kitchen team prepared a variety of treats, including:

• Victoria sponge cake: Light and fluffy layers filled with strawberry jam and whipped cream, a classic favourite.

• Lemon drizzle cake: Moist and zesty, offering a refreshing contrast to the sweeter options.

• Chocolate fudge cake: Rich and indulgent, perfect for those with a sweet tooth.

• Carrot cake: Spiced and moist, topped with a tangy cream cheese frosting.

• Fruit tartlets: Delicate pastry shells filled with custard and topped with fresh seasonal fruits.

Each cake was carefully sliced and served with precision, inviting residents to indulge while enjoying lively conversation and laughter.

Embracing Afternoon Tea Etiquette

Our Ladies High Tea was not only about the food and drink but also about embracing the etiquette that makes this tradition so special. Residents were encouraged to:

• Hold their teacups by the handle, supporting with the middle finger, and avoid lifting the saucer.

• Stir tea gently with a back-and-forth motion rather than circular stirring, to avoid clinking noises.

• Eat sandwiches first, followed by scones with clotted cream and jam, and finish with cakes and sweets.

• Break scones into halves or small pieces, spreading cream and jam separately, respecting the Devon or Cornish traditions.

• Use napkins discreetly and place them beside their plates when finished.

These small details added a sense of occasion and elegance, making the afternoon feel truly special.

The Joy of Togetherness

Beyond the delicious food and refined manners, the true joy of the Ladies High Tea was the sense of community it fostered. Residents shared stories, caught up on news, and enjoyed the company of friends old and new. The event provided a gentle social setting that encouraged conversation and connection, vital elements for wellbeing in care home life.

Staff members were on hand to assist and engage, ensuring everyone felt comfortable and included. The relaxed pace allowed residents to savour each moment, creating memories that would linger long after the last crumb was eaten.

Why Events Like High Tea Matter in Elderly Care

At Birdscroft Nursing Home, we understand that wellbeing is nurtured not only through physical care but also through meaningful social experiences. Events like our Ladies High Tea offer residents a chance to engage culturally and socially, stimulating the mind and lifting the spirit.

The tradition of afternoon tea, with its elegance and ritual, provides a familiar and comforting experience that many residents cherish. It also encourages fine motor skills through handling delicate cups and plates, and cognitive engagement through conversation and etiquette.

Looking Forward to More Celebrations

The success of our Ladies High Tea has inspired us to plan more themed events that celebrate tradition, culture, and community. From seasonal teas to music afternoons and creative workshops, we are committed to enriching the lives of our residents with activities that bring joy and connection.

We extend our heartfelt thanks to our kitchen and care teams for their dedication in making this event a wonderful success, and to our residents for their enthusiastic participation.